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Published: 2013-04-20 18:07:13 +0000 UTC; Views: 2650; Favourites: 16; Downloads: 0
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Description I know some of you might find this offensive and might think I don't know what I'm talking about. That's ok. Different people have different experience and so they have different opinions.

I'm not gonna start stating my opinions about racism or gay rights because
A) I'm don't have even the slightest bit of african-american in me, so I don't want to start sounding like a jerk who thinks she knows everything.
and
B) I might be bi and have a gay brother, but I'm not gonna start assuming I know what a gay person's life is like.

But one thing I do have a strong opinion of... feminists...

I had this girl in my class who suddenly just started rebelling against my group's boy who had taken the lead in our project. She ignored his advice. She would just out of nowhere take her phone and start calling to her boss about her job (when she could have done that during our lunch break). And she would give the deadliest look from her eyes at him. You know why he took the lead? Because no one else had a fucking idea in their minds! But this girl... told me she just couldn't stand him being all high and mighty being the one in control of things. I on the other hand was happy he knew what he was doing and was able to come up with solutions to problems when no one else had a clue. It's not like he was having his nose up in the air about it.

I don't care if a male is smarter than me. There's females who are smarter than me. I'm ok as long as I know I'm not an idiot.

I don't care if males are stronger. You know why? Because males usually ARE stronger! It's a fact. I have never met a woman in my life who wouldn't have found their match in strength from a male somewhere. And I don't have a problem with this. I don't mind being from "the weaker sex" nor do I see reason to make myself seem stronger. But there is one thing I do not like. If a male talks down on me because I'm a female.

What I mean by this? Simple:
"You don't call me stupid because I would be a female. You call me stupid if I'm an idiot!"

My point. You can be stronger than me. You can be faster than me. You can be smarter than me. But God give that male mercy (one male. Not the every single male on the planet) if a male looks into my eyes and tells me I'm a none weight lifting, slow walking, blonde idiot because I'm a female. I'm a no weight lifting, slow walker, blonde idiot if I am. But that's not because I would be a female. Just saying. Stereotypical jokes are a whole another thing of course! Those are funny!

But my final point is... I'm happy that people want to make their points. Really. And what even better is that slowly but surely your point is getting through! But what people seem to start forgetting is the opposite side. The most hated person in today's world is a straight white man... even tho they wouldn't have said a thing in their lives against gays, females or african-americans.
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In here is me and my friend . I ended up drawing her in it because when I told her this mini comic idea, she said she has been wondering the same thing herself XD;

Anyway. Peace guys! You send an angry comment to me, I'll send one to you.
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Comments: 62

DarkNaraX [2013-12-13 14:01:57 +0000 UTC]

I have a thought about this but its not coming out of my head...huh

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JawbreakerCherri [2013-04-25 00:11:02 +0000 UTC]

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to JawbreakerCherri [2013-04-25 00:54:45 +0000 UTC]

If someone was to have a problem with it, I'm sure there would have been people other than me to take care of him/her XD

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JawbreakerCherri In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-25 01:05:31 +0000 UTC]

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to JawbreakerCherri [2013-04-25 01:10:18 +0000 UTC]

True :3 People don't appreciate that so much anymore.

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Ieitmotif [2013-04-23 13:39:06 +0000 UTC]

ohgod, and I thought I was the only one who thought this, I'm a girl and I know that a 'Male' is Stronger Psychically, They we're genetically built like that, and I don't care if I'm not, Heck why should I? It's not my Top priority to be 'Better' or 'Stronger' Than a male xD

If a Guy friend of Mine hits me (Playfully or jokingly) I'll hit back the same, I won't go 'omfg u hit me u deserv to die'

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to Ieitmotif [2013-04-23 13:44:45 +0000 UTC]

Exactly XD I think it is weak for women to use the whole "You can't hit a woman like that" card on a male in that kinda situation.

And another thing I don't understand. If a girl is drunk and a guy has sex with her, she can say he raped her. But if a guy is drunk, didn't want to do it but the girl made him, that's nothing.

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Ieitmotif In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-23 14:22:18 +0000 UTC]

I know right? And the guy would be too drunk to do anything about it or the girl won't accept the 'No', I've read things like that happening and it's annoying, I mean guys get raped too not just girls, But most think it's just girls get abused/raped

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to Ieitmotif [2013-04-23 14:30:11 +0000 UTC]

Ikr. It's stupid. This world is so messed up...

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PParreira [2013-04-21 11:03:18 +0000 UTC]

The male body tends to have bigger girth/bulk which means more strength, however there are others stats that balance out the male and female gender, for instance flexibility.
A female body can extend and bend much further than a male body.
Those atributes I don't see a problem on blaming on the gender.

but what IS a problem is insulting vague stuff like intelligence, talent, success, strength of will, kindness etc... based on a person's sex.
those are virtues that don't have jack-shit to do with gender.

my point: Physically, yes we're different, it's debatable...But that aside, what's inside it's complete up to what a person turns out AS A HUMAN BEING, man or woman.

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to PParreira [2013-04-22 17:53:37 +0000 UTC]

Exactly :3

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5ande [2013-04-21 07:00:01 +0000 UTC]

I pretty much agree with your opinions.

It's also annoying when people think that being feminine is a sign of weakness. Okay, I'm a female, I wear lipstick and dresses. Some people don't, because they want to be seen more masculine, and not "weak". Umm what..? When did being a female started to mean weak?
Men and females are different. No matter how you look at it theres always going to be some differences.

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to 5ande [2013-04-22 17:54:28 +0000 UTC]

Yeah. And sure, some girls don't like wearing dresses or lipstick, but that's not because they are scared to be seen weak. (I just find them uncomfortable) XD

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5ande In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-22 18:03:29 +0000 UTC]

Well yeah there's those people too.

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sqatter [2013-04-21 04:05:30 +0000 UTC]

I try my best to be impartial to race, sexuality, gender etc.

But it's kinda worrying that when I see someone who is usually prejudiced against, my mind instantly adds that layer of stereotype onto them. Even though they are good friends of mine.

So I end up overreacting when they do something actually stereotypical (e.g. girls wearing dresses)

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to sqatter [2013-04-22 17:56:26 +0000 UTC]

I have slightly bit of stereotyping problem too. It's more like I put people in groups due to their appearance, first impression and few behaviors I see. That then decides how I talk to them after that. I do give people chance to prove me wrong too tho.

But my stereotyping problem doesn't go into racism for gays. Just males or females.

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EmperorZelos [2013-04-21 01:30:49 +0000 UTC]

I don't care about skin colour, genital structure or sexual orientation. I treat everyone shit.

Kidding aside I agree, I call people idiots because they are idiots not because any other property, There are things I might not understand but thats my shit to deal with and it is by no means a way to judge a persons character.

Any permutation of human physical and sexual properties does not tell about ones character, and as long as someone is a decent human being, they are good by my book.

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-22 17:57:04 +0000 UTC]

Perfect way to describe a people hater XD Welcome to the club.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-22 19:17:37 +0000 UTC]

which description? XD

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-22 19:18:30 +0000 UTC]

"Treating everyone like shit" and "as long as someone is a decent human being, they are good by my book."

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-22 19:20:02 +0000 UTC]

I honestly don't understand XD

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-22 19:21:21 +0000 UTC]

Then you're a human hater who doesn't know it XD

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-23 03:41:40 +0000 UTC]

I am not a human hater And a human hater is called "misanthrop"

The part about treating everyone shit was a joke silly.

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-23 03:52:16 +0000 UTC]

I'm a people hater :3

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-23 04:38:55 +0000 UTC]

I doubt it :3

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-23 04:47:03 +0000 UTC]

no, I really am. I give one chance to a person and if they fail it, I 99% don't let them change my opinion. I also hate people who try to come too close to my personal life when they aren't even close to my friend level.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-23 05:06:06 +0000 UTC]

a human hater wouldn't have friends or give anyone a try

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-23 05:20:31 +0000 UTC]

I wasn't always a human hater. My friends are from the time before I was one.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-23 15:03:11 +0000 UTC]

I still don't think you are one by definition. someone who hate humans would probably be more like a hermit XD

But humour me this, what made you more misanthropic?

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-23 21:59:48 +0000 UTC]

Bullying, using, lying and back stabbing. I don't trust people that much anymore and it might be because I'm an artist but I categorize people a lot due few first impression behaviors. Which usually designates quickly how I will treat them.

Also I see myself as one because of how much people annoy me. An idiot here in dA can make me so mad just by making a simple mistake of... replying their own comment. ARGH I hate that! Also a person who makes too much noise, role players, a person who can't leave me alone, a person who tries to get too close to my personal life too fast without an opening. And especially... a person who calls me a friend when I don't think s/he is really even on my buddy level. And many more.

And if you want a hermit out of me:
Last time I saw my mother, it was last Christmas for 2 days. Last time I saw any of my friends in real life was... before I moved here a year ago. Last time I called my real life friend... only to that one during my mental breakdowns but not for any other reasons. Last time I went outside to spend time, other than going to the store, was on my birthday and that was November.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-24 03:36:24 +0000 UTC]

Ah I recognise those things from my own life.

is that a life you want for yourself?

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-24 03:50:45 +0000 UTC]

sorta. I'm not much of a people person.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-24 05:31:03 +0000 UTC]

I do recognise that phrase myself so well XD

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-24 09:12:07 +0000 UTC]

and it's not like I haven't tried to be more social. After less than a week I get tired of people and have an urgent need to be alone.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-24 14:21:40 +0000 UTC]

You're talking to a person with asperger and we are inherently associal for various reasons, one being our ineptitude in understanding social interactions in early years. So I know the need to be aloen XD I love my solitude but at the sametime I don't want to be alone always

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-25 00:53:34 +0000 UTC]

so I don't know about you, but I am a people hater. At least 55% of me.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-27 05:56:28 +0000 UTC]

I don't define myself as a people hater because I see it as a false statement for myself.

There is too much to loose being one so I wouldn't even want to be one

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-27 05:59:17 +0000 UTC]

I see it as better to be one. I just don't like people.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-27 06:20:06 +0000 UTC]

How is it better to be one? Humanity is the most pahetic species on this planet if we are loners.

I believe you, but oppinions can be changed if you want to But that would be your choice

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-27 06:59:25 +0000 UTC]

That's just it. It is my choice to see myself as a people hater and I'm happy with that. What you are doing here, is make me explain something that just happens to be natural choice to me XD

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-27 07:38:57 +0000 UTC]

I am discussing your choice :3

Discussing a choice never hurts and gives perspective on thigns

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-27 07:55:06 +0000 UTC]

I don't really like discussing my choices if they sound like questionings.

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EmperorZelos In reply to HiSS-Graphics [2013-04-27 12:11:40 +0000 UTC]

How come?

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to EmperorZelos [2013-04-27 12:15:15 +0000 UTC]

Because I don't like explaining things that are as simple to me as they can be. Also at this state of my life someone questioning anything of me can drive me crazy... I still haven't figured out everything and my head can suddenly start questioning the simplest things out of nowhere.

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akornzombie [2013-04-21 00:14:36 +0000 UTC]

As a white, gun owning, right wing, male, I agree whole-heartedly.

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to akornzombie [2013-04-22 17:57:18 +0000 UTC]

...oook

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CrazyShadowXD [2013-04-20 20:19:31 +0000 UTC]

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to CrazyShadowXD [2013-04-20 20:24:05 +0000 UTC]

I don't see how that could have offended anyone so take it easy

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Dremare [2013-04-20 20:15:37 +0000 UTC]

Yea, I treat everyone equally. If someone hits me, I'll hit back, regardless of gender. A reason for that is probably because my sister hits me REALLY hard when I just tap her as a joke, and when I do a slightly harder tap, she tells me I can't hit girls. And that annoys me. If a female wants me to treat them equally, then I will. If I think someone's stupid, it's DEFINITELY not because of their gender; it's because I think they're stupid.

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HiSS-Graphics In reply to Dremare [2013-04-20 20:23:46 +0000 UTC]

Wow your sister is stupid for saying that... She should just... be a man (XD) and take the hit.

Just like, if a girl is drunk and a guy has sex with her, she can say he raped her. But if a guy is drunk, didn't want to do it but the girl made him, that's nothing. This world is so god damn stupid for thinking like this.

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