KambachFluff In reply to CaitlinSharke [2011-07-01 20:25:41 +0000 UTC]

mmm yes
/shot
lol

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KambachFluff In reply to yujiandhisboa [2011-07-01 17:31:04 +0000 UTC]

We ended up not going cause she was showing me pictures on her laptop xD

This is on the screen lol xD [link]
I have one but since we will break up after next week for his leave to italy for college xD Maybe i should go on a naked men frenzy with my friend lol

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yujiandhisboa In reply to KambachFluff [2011-07-01 20:43:33 +0000 UTC]

lol
but you can always have a long distance relationship ~ no need to really break up~

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KambachFluff In reply to yujiandhisboa [2011-07-01 21:05:04 +0000 UTC]

We've tried long distance before when his last of his senior year, half way through the year, he had to be in England. It's pretty hard and not too fun. Times where confusing and It was hard webcaming without our parents coming in either of our rooms cause we kept our relationship a secret because
My parents are just evil and want me to be all about sports and a sports star 24/7 or they would blame it on him if i made 1 mistake or not being perfect and idk what other crazy things they would do to me.
His (real)parents would want him to have children with me and be engaged and this weird stuff. Dating wasn't allowed, just if you fall in love marry em.
Plus the fact physical touch is his way, you know, he likes hugs and glomping, and lots of hugs and cuddling so without that it's weird and he tends to get lonely really quickly. When he gets lonely he is way too distracted and i don't want that because becoming a doctor he needs his full focus, especially for 8 yrs.
So though we enjoyed almost 2 years with each other we came to agree we'll just break up (^w^)
he is going to come visit for holidays which is great cause me and my other pals would miss him if we didn't get to see him at all.

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yujiandhisboa In reply to KambachFluff [2011-07-02 00:31:43 +0000 UTC]

oh~ i see ~ your parents want to you be something in sports? that is kinda rare : p usually being sporty ain't something what parents want their kid to.. well don't know. at least my parents aren't really into my boxings, they are not openly againsting it, they just don't know why I like it.
Well, at the moment I think me and my parents are having some communication problems, we are long distance for many years and I think both sides have problems explaining our life and affection to each others.. I want to be completely financial independent from them as soon as possible.. it's about time anyway.. sooner I want to have total control of my life and things I want and no one should judge me and tell me what to do (except my girl : p ).
So it seems like you and his life styles are so different and aiming for different goals ~ it could be tricky.. : / but being good friend is always good ^^ plenty of guys on earth anyway~ you can always find somebody. so what sport your parents want you to get into? like a career wise? you should definitely drop sugar if that so XD

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KambachFluff In reply to yujiandhisboa [2011-07-02 01:05:04 +0000 UTC]

yeah they want all of us, (well cept my eldest brother cause it's too late and he is in college for Computers, so two other brothers) to be some sort of sports star. Though the have no hope for my 2nd oldest Corey because he rarely plays on the football team in games but he's got a chance in track but too cocky and not all reliable or that needed. He's a fail at basketball and gives up on it now and then.
Then my little brother is being a wimp and is to scared to try football for the middle school and isn't too hot in basketball anymore. It's just video games and eating and he is overweight so they've almost given up on him but still hope somehow he will be some basketball star.
Me on the other hand in soccer, i play both the Varsity and Junior varsity through out the whole game, no break unless i am injured or need my inhaler cause i feel a sports asthma attack coming on. I'm way to relied on and i do more work than needed. If I'm gone it's like weird and i get texts saying why I'm not there from everyone and they will lose if i'm not there.. This is also in track, I'm relied on too much. I've also have colleges spying on me coming to both my soccer games and Track meets, They plan on recruiting me for soccer and maybe in track for college. I've been in newspapers and had more interviews than both my older brothers combine, plus the fact that i train on my own time it's caught there attention and they are way into my sports. So it's a burden to have to be given a speech and be on my butt if i fail at something. It's rare to get a good job from my own parents. It's already a burden to be relied on and depended on so much by my own teammates.
Ahh that sucks, I'd be scared if i got older and had bad communication problems even more with my parents. I would like to live somewhere else besides the U.S. but I'm not sure yet for now. But I'm sure you'll get the hang of it! It's a struggle at first. I wish my older brother could try and be on his own, he's almost 20. XD We have to force him to get a job, where we live anyone will love to take him.
Yeah, we didn't want to risk though we aren't so sad about it cause we are too close of friends as well. He's bisexual fso awkwardly i hope by Christmas Holidays he brings home a boy. xD As wrong as that is. LOL~ He worries the 2nd guy i'll date, though I'm not much of a dating person xD He just got lucky to be the first. I'll probably be single for some time and find a plan to get rid of the ones who are bothering me x'D
They want me to be a soccer player or a Track star (QwQ) which i do track to help my speed for soccer so I'm not interested in track but if i get lucky in soccer, I won't mind it since I do have a nice passion for it. Though I don't want to live off sports as a career since I prefer trying to become a animator, A dream to work for pixar or so.

/gahh why did this turn out to be a big book OTL

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yujiandhisboa In reply to KambachFluff [2011-07-02 09:04:46 +0000 UTC]

Art and sport are both very hard career to get on. It depends on you really. I wish you the best~

With my parents, they are nice to be honest. We live apart since I was 15~16 so I don’t really have much memories about them, at least the good one. My mum is ok, but my dad couldn’t seen to communicate well with us and always ended up something something violent. He was worse when I was primary school but he changed a lot over years. I have a younger brother, only a year younger and we have most opposite personality. He is like my mum, doesn’t care and remember much and doesn’t has many expectations for himself, he doesn’t like to study and failed some courses but he doesn’t seen to care too much, but he is not a loser type either, he just be happy and see what is there for him.

As for myself, I don’t really know much anymore, I used to know what I want to do. I like to have missions and focus on one thing at a time, I always want to do something big but I sometimes wish I can just be happy and get on with what is there. I think if I not doing boxing I probably ended up a little mad, I need something to get the stress of me.

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KambachFluff In reply to yujiandhisboa [2011-07-02 11:00:26 +0000 UTC]

Yeah VwV but it's not good or easy to balance both.

Ahhh, that kinda sucks but i guess that's life.


I'm sure everyone has one way or another to let our stress or they would go mad.

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